Hi Jim. Welcome aboard...no pun intended LOL While you are at basic and ait, you are considered active duty. So you will get full time pay, which is based on your rank. I also have dependents but I'm a single mom so I'm not sure how it would work for your situation. As for housing allowance, I received BAH and separation. The amount of BAH is based on the area where you live. For instance, mine was $540 a month but a guy from WI only got $200+ a month. So that amount will vary. I believe the separation pay is a flat $250 a month, no matter how many dependents you have.
Hope this helps!
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