This is a rather tangled situation, and I cannot comment on all aspects of it. I can state a few main points:
1. If you do not have confidence in your Recruiter, get his boss involved. Ask for his NCOIC to review what you've been told, and either confirm or correct it. You may also ask the NCOIC to connect you with another Recruiter, if there's just too much bad blood at this point.
2. There are at least a dozen different ways your husband can enlist, and each one has its advantages and disadvantages. I am certainly not an expert on enlisted incentives, so I will not comment specifically, but I can state that oftentimes gaining one incentive means a sacrifice of some kind -- e.g., to get a bigger bonus one must enlist for a longer period. I also know that the fact that your husband hasn't completed his eight-year MSO is a factor in the bonus regime. Please note that an OCS enlistment will have few, if any, available incentives. Perhaps the Recruiter is trying to develop a plan to maximize your husband's incentives by having him enlist as a traditional Soldier, and then apply for OCS later. Again, I cannot comment on the specifics of the situation, but I recommend that your husband make some decisions about what is most important to him (e.g., OCS ASAP, or delay OCS a year or two if it means more $$), and then let the Recruiter develop a plan that meets his priorities.
3. A Recruiter only gets credit for an enlistment. I don't know of any incentive to a Recruiter to get him to enlist as a Traditional Soldier versus as an OCS candidate. If your husband enlists, then the Recruiter gets his credit; if he joins OCS later, the Recruiter is not involved, since your husband is already a Soldier.
4. I'd be glad to give you contact information for your state's OSM, but I can't determine what state you're in. I'm very surprised the Recruiter won't let you contact the OSM, which is another reason you need to have a conversation with his NCOIC. Perhaps he isn't aware of the OSM, and is ashamed to admit it.
MATTHEW A. RITCHIE
Lieutenant Colonel, Virginia ARNG
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