This is an issue best raised with your chain of command or state Officer Strength Manager. Your commissioning date is the critical factor. You were commissioned prior to the bonus coming into effect, so you are not eligible. Since I just know you want to argue about that, take it up with someone in your state, since even if I agree with you I can't do anything for you.
For reference, the money carries a six year drilling obligation to the ARNG (any state).
MATTHEW A. RITCHIE
Lieutenant Colonel, Virginia ARNG
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