Im going to attempt to make this make sense. Im 33, I have 3 kids and I live in central Illinois. I am not with the kids mom, we were never married but I see the kids on a regular basis (about 50% of the time I have them). I am not enlisted yet but am working that way. Recently she told me she is moving to western Missouri (like 6 hours away or something). Obviously I want to see my kids when Im "home" which brings me to my problem. I currently rent my house in Illinois. Should I find a house to rent in Missouri so that when Im on leave I have somewhere to go? Paying for it the whole time Im deployed but not really using it? It doesnt make that much sense to rent a house when Im only using it for 30 days a year. I guess I could do one of those crappy 30 day hotel rental deals. Regardless I dont want "home" to be 6 hours from my kids, I have nothing keeping me here so common sense tells me that my "home" should be over in Missouri where the kids are. How do I accomplish this? Any advice? (P.S. obviously this refers to active duty)
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