Being The Younger Brother In A Older Brothers Life

[help re4]

Any One Else Have A Older Brother They Live With And Work With. :(

Man I Love My Brother But I Cant Freakin Stand His Bs Anymore. Cant Wait To Ship Out. You Guys Know How It Is Being The Younger Brother? My Brother Thinks Hes God. Trys To Tell Me What To Do All Day. Yells Treats Me Like Do Do. Any Every Body In My Family Acts Like Its Ok Or Somthing. They Ignore It, Like Its No Big Deal.
My Family Owns A Business And His Name Is Alexander The Stores Name Is Alexanders My Dadsname Grandfathers Name Ect, So We Work Together Live Together. I Make Like 100 A Week Working At Out Store And He *****es About How I Dont Pay Rent At His House. Keep In Mind I Work Around 55-60 Hours A Week.

Cant Get Anoter Job At The Moment. Cant Move Out And Live On My Own Because Of This. Im In Connecticut So I Need Atlease 20 An Hour To Live On My Own And That Doesnt Seem Like Its In Reech.
Sure As **** Am Not Movin In With My Parents.

What Do I Do. Nobody Even Takes Me Seariously Why Not.
Never Been Arrested Hes Screwed Up Alot More Than Me But Some How Im A Peace Of ****? HE ACTS AND MAKES EVERY ONE IN OUR FAMILY LOOK DOWN ON ME Why? How DO I FIX THIS WITH OUT VIOLENCE. LIKE I SAID I LOVE MY BROTHER BUT I CANT ****ING STAND HIM What Do I Do


SOMETIMES I GET SO PISSED OFF AT HIM I WANNA JUST FLIP THE F*** OUT AND KICK HIS ***

[SteveLord]

Does he also type in CAPS or a capital letter for every word? :rolleyes:

[Recruiter yosis]

I got my brother a job job working at Comcast (cable company).I should have known better than to get a job for him knowing he would quit or show up high or drunk on the job.I got him a job as a dispatcher with us..At first, He was doing well for the 1st month or so until I left to go to Ft.Hood for some contracting work.

So every time I would need to close out a job we have to call to put cable boxes etc on the customer's account he thought he was god.I called him one time and told him I wasn't going to do a job (which is rare for me) because thier was three things wrong with the job 1. over a foot of water in the crawlspace 2.Bats in the attic and C. the house ground wasn't there. So he thought he should call the boss(my cousin) to tell him I wouldn't do the job.I almost got fired because of that one.

Then I started to get phone calls that he was bring his g/f to work with him...
The chick is stright up dumb.First she is married to a known gang member in New York then moved down here with him.Her husband got locked up for somthing or another.
I almost died laughing she put my last name tattooed on her back. You just don't put someones last name on you anywhere on your body unless its your own.Then she had nerve to use my tattoo guy.
So they started to see each other ,My brother didn't want to take care of his kids because he wanted to get drunk or high all times of the day with her.
It was all F#CKED UP.


Also he called immigration on my wife while I was at work.
So, I know how you feel.
I just jacked his s@it all up then we're fine. For now it like every 6mos to a year I got to beat some smarts into that fool.The worse thing is and what I can't stand he is smart but he would rather live with his mom &dad not apply him self to anything.26yo living at home not cool in my book.

I'm not saying to do what I just said.Talk to him first to tell him how you feel,
at work I understand what you are going though there too .Talk to your mom or pops tell them this is some BULL and you should not be treated as such.

If that doesn't work....Do what needs to be done. Just dont get arrested since you are leaving soon

60 HOURS and you are making $100.00 That's about $1.66/hr. You need min wage

[WO1 Quinones]

soild? lol

Anyway, I am that type of brother lol. Its just me and my little brother Fred. I tried to be that role model but at 31, he still likes living with mom (mom's fault too to allow that and to let his girlfriends live there as well) and couldnt pass the ASVAB test to save his life. I do love him but he is a raging maniac and not like his older brother ;)

[QuantumRN]

Sorry to hear about your situation. It is very unfortunate that as brothers you can't depend on eachother, but it is what it is. My advice probably isn't what you're looking for but, it's a different angle.
All relationships are 50/50. No matter what your brother says or does to you, half of the situation is him being an @ss, and the other half is you putting up with it. The more you tolerate it, the more it happens. The one thing to remember is that you can't control him or his behavior, you can only control your reaction to him. Realizing that is HUGE. Sometimes, the younger brother has to be the one to step up and be the role model for the older brother regardless of what your family thinks.

The same goes for the situation you're in. You live there and work there because YOU let it happen.

I don't know the answers to your situation; solutions to problems are always challenging. You will better serve yourself by acknowledging your piece of ownership to the problems at hand, and make choices to change what you DO in fact have control over.

Best of luck to you.

[RobLyman]

Sorry to hear about your situation. It is very unfortunate that as brothers you can't depend on eachother, but it is what it is. My advice probably isn't what you're looking for but, it's a different angle.
All relationships are 50/50. No matter what your brother says or does to you, half of the situation is him being an @ss, and the other half is you putting up with it. The more you tolerate it, the more it happens. The one thing to remember is that you can't control him or his behavior, you can only control your reaction to him. Realizing that is HUGE. Sometimes, the younger brother has to be the one to step up and be the role model for the older brother regardless of what your family thinks.

The same goes for the situation you're in. You live there and work there because YOU let it happen.

I don't know the answers to your situation; solutions to problems are always challenging. You will better serve yourself by acknowledging your piece of ownership to the problems at hand, and make choices to change what you DO in fact have control over.

Best of luck to you.

Some of the wisest words I have read on this forum.